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Date: 11/19/2000 2:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 15400
This is so true. I have been cheated on about 3times so far. But just remeber some women are just as bad as in men in the cheating deparment. -Take care. ~*~Princess_Leo~*~  |
Date: 11/19/2000 2:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 16376
I don't feel this way about all men. Women cheat to you know. Danielle  |
Date: 11/19/2000 2:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 13079
The same could be asked about women! Love,  |
Date: 11/19/2000 2:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 5484
UMMMMMM.MOST MEN UH THATS A BIG STATISTIC,I HOPE MY HUBBY DONT OR HE WILL BE BURNT TOAST...  |
Date: 11/19/2000 2:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 8717
"Men will cheat at least 2.5 times in his lifetime" How sad. Makes me wonder why people even bother to get married. Did the statistic say anything about women cheating?  |
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Date: 11/19/2000 2:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 19691
Why would you read Cosmopolitan? And why would you care? hehe Answer to this. Mordred |
Date: 11/19/2000 2:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 13061
true true but there is a thing called self control. though women cheat, its not always as bad as men   |
Date: 11/19/2000 2:32:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 13283
I care about how women are treated. If someone played my mom or sister i would straighten that guy out in a heartbeat.This behavior by men is unacceptable , but then they also have a built in excuse.  |
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Date: 11/19/2000 2:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 13061
and LOL @ chrissy.....charbroiled |
| Date: 11/19/2000 2:34:00 PM From Authorid: 19691 Ok I agree. But why would you read Cosmopolitan? Mordred |
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Date: 11/19/2000 2:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 13079
Ice angel......why is it not as bad if a woman cheats? |
Date: 11/19/2000 2:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 11263
if they have'nt cheated then they have thought about it, that's just as bad. but women do it too. it's just that it is harder for a man to find out with women cause we are so secretive. i have not ever cheated on someone. not all men do or women either, just the few that do. it's wrong, if you are gonna cheat then just don't be with someone, i think ppl do it for the thrill. just a thought.  |
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Date: 11/19/2000 2:40:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 13283
I study womens health and those magazines give me great insight. Women are hard to figure out, but these mags like Madamoseille and Harpers Bazaar help me to better understand a woman. |
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Date: 11/19/2000 2:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 11263
yeah, i agree with a comment above, women cheat but they don't make it a sport like men.....=oP |
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Date: 11/19/2000 2:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 11263
it's bad for women or men to cheat, it's wrong either way. |
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Date: 11/19/2000 2:43:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 13283
I think women cheat just to get even(get their guy back). I think the saying is" Whats good for the goose is good for the gander!" |
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Date: 11/19/2000 2:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 13079
I guess sometimes that may be true, but cheating is cheating any way you look at it. I think what goes around comes around and if he cheats, maybe his next will cheat on him. |
Date: 11/19/2000 2:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 600
Well my perspective is that of a wife and woman in general. I have never cheated, and if my hubby did, I think I would make Loraina Bobbitt look like a kitten. lol. j/k. I honestly think that the decision to cheat is made by each individual, male or female. We all have choices and temptations, it is then left up to each of us as to how we decide to react to it. I don't feel that our sex (male or female) has anything to do with it. That's just my opinion though.  |
Date: 11/19/2000 2:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 13861
Hey are you calin' me a cheater I have cheated once in my life of 11 years.  |
Date: 11/19/2000 2:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 15394
The only reason a person would cheat is that they don't have the intestinal fortitude to be truthful of feelings.... If we told the other person what we were feeling before cheating, there wouldn't be any cheating!! Jungabel-Beth  |
Date: 11/19/2000 3:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 13297
I don't think that men being animals as you say is an excuse. The other thing is that women do it too. I think PEOPLE cheat because usually there is something wrong with their relationship, i.e. one person is not as committed as the other. The other thing, that usually takes place in lengthy marriages, is complacency. People quit trying and forget what it was that made them love each other so much when they got together. If people would put as much energy into rekindling the old flame instead of looking for a new piece of meat then maybe they could recapture that old spark without hurting several people in the process. He/she would most likely end up with what he/she was really looking for in the first place... cheers, eimaj...  |
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Date: 11/19/2000 3:07:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 13283
I hope someday in my lifetime scientists discover the gene that makes men cheat. That way we will successfully remove this habit from all men. That way guys can no longer say "Its in our genes." |
Date: 11/19/2000 3:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
hmmm, well women do also cheat too. But I think men, cheat more often because it's kinda like a competition for them in a way. Something that they can brag about to their buddies. Ok, I'm a girl so I may not know this for sure, but it's a thought. -Becky (dewdrop01)  |
| Date: 11/19/2000 3:11:00 PM Authorid: 19382 - "I am not an animal. And i take offence at that. I have never cheated on a partner in my life. (not that that means much) and I beleive you shouldn't cheat! If a man cheats through temptation, he's weak. and needs a swift boot up the butt. that's my 2 cents." - Supreme Commander Gendo Ikari |
Date: 11/19/2000 3:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 17156
WHATEVER, not all men cheat who ever wrote that article more than likely got her heart broken and wanted to make herself feel better, some good men do have morals you know and others just read numbers by stupid mags. trying to figure out when they will cheat. self control my hubby has honestly never cheated on anyone but i have cheated on everyone but him. people in general cheat not only men and not only women ~sweetvixen~  |
Date: 11/19/2000 3:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 3909
I think that since were all human with sin we all cheat: Not just men...  |
Date: 11/19/2000 3:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 19332
I dont cheat i am faithful to the woman that I am with,not all men cheat,I am sorry if you do and I am sorry for the woman that you end up with.If you had any moral values at all you would not cheat on someone no matter what the circomstances are.Its just not right.Demon Slayer  |
Date: 11/19/2000 3:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 17248
I believe that women cheat as much as men if not more. Women are more dominant these days! - GlowBuggie  |
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Date: 11/19/2000 3:40:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 13283
Hey ! Dont start attacking me. My lady right now was my first one, she will be my only one i hope.and she will also be my last. I saved myself for her . I dont plan on cheating on her! |
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Date: 11/19/2000 3:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 19332
Thats good that you dont want to cheat on her,sorry for being rude,it just came out that way.But you also have to try your hardest not too,it can be tough sometimes but you have to make sure that you dont fall into temptation.Demon Slayer |
Date: 11/19/2000 4:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 13354
I think it has some to do with their EGO.  |
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Date: 11/19/2000 4:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 17560
I don't think all men cheat either but from what I've seen, alot do. And alot of women do too. Just my thoughts. Mordred, that was a pretty mean thing to say. Tootsie-Pie  |
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Date: 11/19/2000 4:14:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 13283
Correct Mordred. I had plans on doing Gods work. I wanted to be a priest but instead He chose me to heal many women. Ive done good so far. I am here to serve and protect women. Mordred do you cheat? |
Date: 11/19/2000 5:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 13119
You are right that it is a throw back to the Neandrathal man. In order to keep the species and his clan alive man had to spread his genetic material around. Women were built with hips and more body fat. .............................See its NOT the chocolates girls ....its our GENES!  |
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Date: 11/19/2000 6:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 11263
cheating is cheating. i would never cheat to get even with a cheating hubby or boyfriend or whatever, i would just leave, and it would be after the first time. i don't tolerate it at all. women don't nessicarily cheat to get even, i know women who have done it like a sport just the same as men. |
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Date: 11/19/2000 7:55:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 13283
Whos fault is it when the ball stops rolling? The man or the woman???? I keep hearing from my homeboys that they need variety. They always think the grass is greener on the other side. Go figure! |
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Date: 11/19/2000 8:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 20317
When a person is in love, he/she understands and values the level of committment and intimacy present in the relationship. Regardless of our gender, we will always be physically attracted to members of the opposite sex. But people who are truly in love realize that there is a huge difference between intimacy and sex. If intimacy is not a major part of the relationship, the benefits of cheating outweigh the costs. Without intimacy - what do we have to lose? This is true for both men and women. As for your comment about men "being animals", *all* humans are animals with instincts. However, we also have emotions, desires, dreams, and beliefs. I may be biologically wired to reproduce, but that doesn't mean I'm in a hurry to get pregnant and raise a family. There are many women who decide that motherhood is not their "cup of tea", just as there are many men who experience complete love and intimacy with only one woman. The brain is always in control of the body. Biology is a lame excuse. And if men were only put on the earth to spread their seed -- who would play the paternal role? Children need fathers. Our crumbling society makes that quite evident. |
Date: 11/19/2000 10:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 14756
I agree with you Author 20317...well said!  |
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Date: 11/20/2000 8:54:00 AM
From Authorid: 4231
You knwo this will angry ALOT of people. Not all men are like this. My dad has NEVER cheated. Woamn do cheat! Thats what will outrage people. i don't think this was a good post. It seems more like a men bashing post to me.  |
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Date: 11/20/2000 10:08:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 13283
The title does not say all men cheat a mere explanation why most do. Your dad is in the small minority. I applaud your dad. He is a real man! This was put under debate to be scrutinized. |
Date: 11/20/2000 11:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 4548
LOL @ magoo, that's the best logic i've ever heard! i agree this is a strange thing for a guy to post, especially the part about being chosen to heal many women, or whatever that's all about. not sure what that means exactly. i'm female, and i'm always on the prowl, i can't help it, it's just my nature, personally. furthermore, if you're getting your information about women from cosmo, then it's not a very accurate portrayal. all they give you in there is society's projections of how women OUGHT. trust me, we're not all 5'8 110 lbs and concerned about hair/nails/clothing. that's just what the ad agencies want you to believe. the lowest common denominator is "men are animals", and that's what helps to sell magazines. that's my thoughts on the subject, anyway.  |
Date: 11/20/2000 1:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 12426
Who knows...Its just one of the great mysteries. Maybe they feel insecure..Well some of them  |
| Date: 11/20/2000 1:54:00 PM From Authorid: 18737 Well, I don't get my "factual" information from a magazine, but in my life experience I have known far more married women who "cheat" than men. And I do know men who NEVER cheated on their wives. But, that's just my observation, not a "statistic" from a magazine. May peace and harmony be forever yours. /s/ J.T. |
| Date: 11/20/2000 1:59:00 PM From Authorid: 18737 And Helen Gurley Brown was one of the first women to openly advocate that women should take control of their lives/bodies by engaging in casual sex. Just a little "factual" information. /s/ J.T. |
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Date: 11/20/2000 2:38:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 13283
I get my info from life experiences also. My brother cheats. My uncles cheat. My male cousins |
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Date: 11/20/2000 2:41:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 13283
and all my homeboys cheat . I use lots of resources. I once worked in a library and i read many many books and many articles in all magazines. |
| Date: 11/20/2000 2:57:00 PM ( Admin-2 ) Studies and numbers have a plus or minus factor that cannot be figured into the equation. One big factor is the amount of love between the couple, as well as the commitment factor. These things will never show up on a chart or graph. |
| Date: 11/20/2000 6:29:00 PM From Authorid: 19691 You are absolutely right, men ARE animals. So are women. So are cats and birds and lions and zebra and snakes. Mordred |
Date: 11/20/2000 10:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 18460
LOL@mordred^^^^good point though, i haven't been cheated on...but when a man do, ugh! don't know what'll i do...well i guess men and women have that "characteristic", i know coz i have friends like those...you wouldn't say it is a cheat not unless u are fully committed to a person, if not you are just sorting out your options, nevertheless it is such a cruel thing to do!@ abyrinth  |
Date: 11/21/2000 12:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 15941
I am a man and can honestly say i have never cheated.  |
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Date: 11/21/2000 3:56:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 13283
In the bible it says the people will live like their leaders. Thank God we are getting Clinton out of office and putting an upstanding guy like George Bush Jr in office soon. Bush will set the example for all men. I see a decline in men cheating after this happens. |
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Date: 11/21/2000 4:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 15823
I asked my wife if she'd ever cheated on me and she said "Only once." I asked "who with?" and she said "The British Parachute Regiment!!!!" Seriously though - Any man (OR woman) who cheats in a relationship and then claims "It's in my genes, so I can't help it." is a fraud. If we cheat it's because we fail to exercise self-control ... and then we deserve everything we get. Huggs. Soesis.  |
| Date: 11/21/2000 5:11:00 AM From Authorid: 17018 Oh soesis i could cheat with you!!! lol (J/K)??? |
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Date: 11/21/2000 5:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 13297
I'm with Soesis on this one. cheers, eimaj... |
Date: 11/21/2000 9:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 17513
I think most normal people don't want to cheat on their loved ones. We don't get up in the morning and say, "Ok, I am going to screw around today." I believe that with men (no offense taken) it's in their biological make-up to procreate with as many females out of fear their species will not survive. Back in time men did it out of necessity to preserve their kind. Today we are more civilized but I do believe the genetic make up is still ingrained in most men and I blame it on Testosterone, the drive to be aggressive. Men have testosterone which makes most of them aggressive to protect their women and offspring against other males. But not all men cheat. I think there are very strong-minded, respectful men out there who value love and commitment and would rather run infront of a train than hurt the woman they truly love.  |
| Date: 11/21/2000 3:23:00 PM From Authorid: 19691 Oh, come on. Dubya Bush is only there cause of his dad. He can't be any good. Mordred |
Date: 11/21/2000 10:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 19691
Ya know Royaluzi, you are one great person. Though I might not agree with everything you say, still you do some great things and I respect that most of all. I don't believe there are people like you  , cause it seems like the whole world is falling appart. Mordred |
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Date: 11/22/2000 7:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 13061
pixie-- what i meant was woman's cheating is not as bad as mens (well if it is, it is unbeknownst to me and i retract..) |
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Date: 11/22/2000 7:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 13061
not as bad as in not as often |
Date: 11/25/2000 10:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 13824
I think everybody cheats. It's just a normal thing. MUSIC MASTER  |
Date: 11/26/2000 3:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 20296
you sound like you just want an excuse to cheat. noone can predict a future by statistic, your destiny is in your own hands, at least regarding this kind of thing. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO CHEAT...THEN DON'T  |
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Date: 11/26/2000 3:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 20296
oh another comment, men are pre programmed to procreate(sp) not cheat. they can choose to stay with one woman, it shouldn't be hard if love is involved. every one gets horney, but you don't have to act out on it, especially if you r gooing to hurt someone you care abouut. |
Date: 11/27/2000 6:27:00 AM
From Authorid: 18155
Well I must be an odd ball.In 27 yrs. of marriage,I have never cheated.I've never wanted to or felt the need to or had a reason to.Having done counseling,I found men and women that cheat are looking for something,usually, they are not finding at home with their spouse but to call it instinct puts us on the same level as the animals which I am not.18155  |
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Date: 11/27/2000 6:54:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 13283
Author 18155 you are to be admired. I wish there were a whole lot more men like you. I do not like seeing womens hearts being broken. How do you manage to stay faithful? Educate these other men out here. Raz aka |
Date: 11/29/2000 4:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 962
i would give you a good smack in the head *similar to the 1 u gave me* if you cheat :P bad raz :P a magazine??? lol u are so funny!!! well i guess u can just continue running off *wink wink* to avoid cheating now behave okei  |
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Date: 11/29/2000 4:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 962
don't worry guys, i doubt big if raz here will ever cheat ... |
| Date: 12/18/2000 2:33:00 PM I believe men love challenges. If a man has sex with a woman on the first date the man will cheat. Where is the mystery? I have kept men from cheating on me by remaining a virgin. I am also very independent. |
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Date: 12/28/2000 11:52:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 13283
Why did God make women so tempting and desirable? Raz aka |
| Date: 3/2/2001 6:36:00 AM The author's sexism gets in the way of the message. First of all, if all men are animals, then so are women (because we are inately so). As a married man, I can tell you that I have never cheated. Not only in my marriage, but even back in high school, though college, I was loyal to each woman I dated. From my experiences, women cheat much more than men. The question should be, why do WOMEN cheat? For men, it's basic. Men cheat out of bordem, lack of attention, or lack of love. Stastically, men are less likely to break up their families because of an affair. Women, on the other hand, are much more likely to leave her spouse and children to further pursue the affair. Men tend to cheat and move on. Not that that is ok, but it is the lesser of the evils, without a doubt. Women are notorious for destroying the lives of their children (not to mention their husbands) in order to selfishly chase the affair. In summation, why men cheat is not a mystery. The real mystery is why women cheat. |
| Date: 3/6/2001 8:45:00 PM I must be a real strong man, with great will! |
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Date: 3/20/2001 11:57:00 AM
That's really sad, but I guess that's life!! Yesicha |
Date: 3/20/2001 4:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 27583
i was with my wife for 32years,married for 30 when she died and i never strayed once, it doesent take wilpower it takes loving your wife and respecting her and yourself more than that. WOODEN NICKEL  |
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Date: 3/22/2001 3:24:00 PM
If you go by "Pop psychology", yes all men cheat, but I would beg to differ. It's not fair to generalize men or women that way. Women cheat a lot too. People who cheat have no self-discipline in the area of thier sexual lives. People can choose not to follow their impulses, but most of us don't. People do cheat, but there are also people who do not cheat. If we rely on ourselves and our own strength, we will fail everytime, but if we rely on a strenght far superior than ours, God will never fail us. It is His strength that we must ask for and use, we're not animals, we were created in God's image. To say anything less of that is a slap in His face and not to trust Him is just as bad. It's not easy, we have to die to ourselves and our fleshly wants & needs, and then, cheating will no longer be an option for anyone. But not everyone will die to themselves, instead they'll live by "Pop psychology" which is every changing and they'll live by what feels right, what's in it for themselves instead of their spouse, or significant other and when that happens, the relationship dies. |
| Date: 3/23/2001 11:52:00 AM I don't believe that statement. All men do not cheat. Only those who do not have healthy self esteem cheat. They look for someone else to tell them their value. They need to know who they are and accept it. You should never rely on another human being to supply or maintain your emotional needs. |
| Date: 4/23/2001 2:48:00 PM Its hard for a woman to understand why a man cheats. Why chance breaking up your marriage when you can get all you want from your wife. |
| Date: 5/1/2001 2:48:00 PM My boyfriend of almost one year and I disagree on how much we should go out without each other. In a nut shell, he goes to the club at least once a weekend, every weekend with his friends and I don't really go out. I'm older than he is and clubs just don't interest me anymore, especially since I'm taken. But yesterday, I called him and he told me that some girl had left a hickey on his neck. I asked how it happened, he said they were dancing, he was drunk, she sucked him and he told her to stop because he had a girlfriend. Now, me personally, I think that he "messed" up because he should have stopped her long before she left a mark. He claims he was a little too drunk and that he felt awful. But, I know that he's not going to stop going to the club or drinking, however, I have not and will not allow him to see me for at least two weeks. Some people think I should leave him. He's never cheated on me or lied to me before, but he's unwilling to give up his precious male fraternization even when clearly, bad things happen when he's out, that affect us. So what do you think? Should I leave him??? |
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Date: 5/2/2001 3:22:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 13283
The club scene is all about fooling around for singles , at the club he sounds like he is being a player . The beer also contributed to his slip up . If he does it once it is his fault, dont let there be a second slip up coz then it will be your fault . If he does it again get rid of him . Raz aka |
| Date: 5/9/2001 5:22:00 AM yall sure told the truth and i hope you will not cheat once you ge married by the church |
Date: 11/19/2001 3:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 16069
Women cheat just as much.  |
| Date: 3/13/2004 3:29:00 PM From Authorid: 50490 LOL Yes, but the Neo-man also used the bathroom in the same place he slept, he marked his territory in the way a dog does today...both of those things are instinct to him...so does that mean men of today should still practice both? lol The "genes" theory is just a cop-out for ill behaviour. |
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