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Date: 7/3/2008 4:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 21764
aw so sorry to hear about your troubles at work.. ![]() |
Date: 7/3/2008 4:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
I'm sorry you're having problems at work, but I find it to be a cop-out that you won't work with a child because he has behavioral problems. You say you "expect to be treated with respect" but he's a two year old.. he doesn't even understand the concept of respect much less the meaning of the word. This hits close to home with me because my younger brother had behavioral problems and everyone wanted to sweep them under the rug rather than really dealing with it. What this child needs is MORE personalized attention.. if you are going to be working with children as a career, you need to realize that not all of them are sunshine and butterflies. ![]() |
| Date: 7/3/2008 4:54:00 PM From Authorid: 64637 sorry to hear this psyguy, But honestly, I don't think that it was a bad thing for you to talk to the parent that could help. Her kid is there too and she doesn't (from a mother's perspective)want her kid to be in the middle of that situation. If the director feels that way, obviously she isn't doing a good job! If i were you, i wouldn't worry one bit about the job while you are on vacation. Leave work @ work!!! You will find that you will be so much more relaxed when you go back. Also, my kids go to daycare too, but it is a parent owned and operated center. Parents give their time to make sure that it is ran just the way it needs to be. Don't get me wrong, there is kids there that have some problems, but it is such a close knit community that everyone is available for the sake of the children to help. Parents should help, especially the ones of the kids that are acting up! So I think you should go on vacation, leave work @ work, relax, go back and then see if you are still feeling like you need another job. Just some suggestions! Have a great 4th of July, and a great vacation. I will be back here on Monday! Sorry so long!~~~MidnightSun |
Date: 7/3/2008 4:59:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 63026
Rika his mom told us she doesn't want us to give us any specail extra attenion to him...He is very smart, and too smart for his own good. He talks better than some of the older kids, and can have a grown up conversations...He knows the difference bewteen right and wrong too. His mom works there, and his aunt is the director...They take him when he's crying when he sees them, and they let him go with them...He knows if he cries long enough they will come get him... ![]() |
Date: 7/3/2008 5:01:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 63026
He can be sweet, he likes me, but he thinks he can run the show too...He thinks just cause his aunt owns the place, he can act like he can go anywhere, and get what he wants. His mom even told us about him being a "Brat" her exact words...No other kid I take to the bathroom acts like that. ![]() |
Date: 7/3/2008 5:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 61977
I feel the same way as Rika does. Just because the parent or family member doesn't want you to do certain things to show the child any extra attention or what have you, does that make your actions morally correct and best serve the chidren's needs? I work with troubled girls all day where I work and believe me it is no picnic. I can get attacked, have things thrown at me and be bitten, but in no way does it change the love I have for the girls. That is just my two cents on this post. ![]() |
Date: 7/3/2008 5:18:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 63026
He's not a "troubled kid"...He watches wrestaling with mom and grandpa, and he acts out what he sees on tv. He knows all the WWE Wrestlers, and when he attacks the other kids, he says "undertaker" or "triple h" and stomps on the kids. ![]() |
Date: 7/3/2008 5:20:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 63026
His mom won't correct him, and we repeatedly raised our concerns of him watching his wrestaling. And yet she ignores them...You can't have a kid attacking other kids in a daycare setting. The other parents get concern, and they start getting on us about it. And yes we have had parents ask us why their child is acting out...And we have to tell them that their are certain kids who act up, and we've been asking for help, and haven't gotten it. ![]() |
Date: 7/3/2008 5:22:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 63026
And when you got 14 toddlers in one room, and they all are attacking each other, hitting each other, biting, and stomping on each other, you have a major problem. Our room has reached that point where you move the kid out of that room, or you keep punishing him. ![]() |
Date: 7/3/2008 5:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 35178
I agree with PsyGuy there is a distinct difference between a kid who is "troubled" and has learned no other way to communicate or behave, and one who is simply trying to take advantage of a situation. And yes at the age of 2 a child is smart enough to do this. After working in a daycare setting I can tell you from my experience that the problem isn't the children but the parents who take no responsibility for raising and disciplining their children. And on a side note PsyGuy we had a mother who worked there too who would always stick her head in the room during the middle of nap time and every single time the kid would starting screaming until her mom took her. It would ruin nap time for everyone else. The woman still did it every day! I am sorry but brats don't just happen parent raise a brat! ![]() |
Date: 7/3/2008 5:48:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 63026
Yea and we have another mom who wants to come in at 2 and get her kid. While the other kids are sleeping, and she wakes the other kids up. She insits she gets him and talks to him...I can personally get a kid up without waking them up, and take the kid out to the hallway to give to the parent. Most parents prefer it that way..They understand the need for the kids to sleep. ![]() |
Date: 7/3/2008 6:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 35178
Exactly because if the kids don't sleep no one is having a good afternoon! Sorry to hear about all your work drama PsyGuy. I know it all to well and I hope a solution comes your way. ![]() |
Date: 7/3/2008 6:01:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 63026
Were working on a change "hopefully"...It is a bad combination right now of kids. We got the agressors versus quiet ones. ![]() |
Date: 7/3/2008 6:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 35178
Hopefully the mom will start to work with you and the lead teacher for the change. One thing I always noticed is you can make progress all week with a child but then by the next week its like starting over because the child was allowed to do whatever whenever over the weekend. ![]() |
Date: 7/3/2008 6:19:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 63026
yep. And he's different when he's with grandpa and grandma. ![]() |
Date: 7/4/2008 3:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 15677
reading your post all the time this job is just too much good luch finding a new one ![]() |
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