OMG i have a "friend" lets call him "john". when i first met john he was awesome and it was fun talking to him, because he was just so fun to talk to. I started dating john's bestfriend, and our friendship grew closer, and soon we were able to talk about everything and anything, and comment on eachothers stuff. my boyfriend and john, got "around" fairly well with the ladies... it was usually see wut i can do with this girl, move on to the next type of stuff. But my boyfriend and i have been together for about 5 months now, and all john talks about is, hes going to cheat on you, he always does, its a habit of his but then again john says, hes been with u for a long while now and all i hear is you, and im suprised he hasnt cheated on you, maybe hes changed, and he likes u more then hes liked any girl. Every single day john still reminds me that my b/f (matt) will cheat. matt always tells me hes not going to, because he really likes me alot, and that he has changed and hes happy and doesnt want anything to interfer with us, and that hes willing to work any kind of problems out! John has no clue how i feel about his friend, and he says im takin things to seriously, and i need to chill before something bad happens, and matt's nature is to mess around with girls heads. i trust matt completely but when it comes to stuff like this, i hesitate. matt ran into a good friend of mine and they chatted for a couple mins, and he told me he had seen her etc.. i talked to her tonite and she started telling me, if your boyfriend comes near me, im going to hit him.. obviously matt said something to her and she got mad.. I asked matt wut he did and he showed me their convo.. my friend had asked him over (since they live really close) and that she wants to do stuff with him and stuff. imediatly i thought wut a backstabber! how could my friend do that. Then i talked to john who likes my friend and he told me, that matt probably said something to my friend like "yeh i'll come over" and thats probably why she said she'd hit him. But then again my friend has always been tellin me she thought matt was cute and looked like a nice kisser... so that threw me off... John is acting like he knows everything, about relationships, and he knows everything about matt and wut hes going to do, and that hes mister big shot, which i think hes just full of him self because he cant keep a stable relationship.... whenever my boyfriend hears that im upset, he always urges me to tell him everything on why i feel upset because he wants to help me :(. I told him how i felt and he said, he has been known to cheat, but that he doesnt want me to think he is a horrible person because of it, because he doesnt want to cheat on me and hes not going to, and he told me that im basically all his and that he doesnt want to be with anyone but me rite now :( he said not to listen to his friend, because hes just trying to put stuff into my head, and that if he didnt really like me, he wouldnt be with me for such a long time...
I dont know wut to do anymore, i dont know who to trust, whoever i do want to trust, it just seems hard to, because everything kind of makes sense..i just guess i dont want to hear it...
I need help, because i like matt alot, hes a great guy and i love being with him
Thanks for reading! :) Limegreen
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