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*~* QuitY'urBellyAchin'AndDoSomethin'AboutIt! *~* Hey,Hey,Paula

  Author:  53961  Category:(Suggestion) Created:(10/16/2004 2:07:00 PM)
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Ok, guys, first thing, don't shoot the messenger... This is intended as a heads up post, NOT a pointing finger post.

Lots of posts coming down about the "Old USM" vs. the "New USM", this was better, that was better, yada, yada, yada...

First of all, I didn't realize that Radman and Ginger closed out USM and started it again different? Did I not receive the memo?

Point blank - if you see a problem, then YOU need to ask yourself, "What can I, AS A MEMBER of this AWESOME site DO to help, improve, add to, enhance, upgrade, spice up, recruit new members, etc...?" Because we ALL have the opportunity to do all of the above and then some.

We have a pretty good lead way here and all that they ask is that we keep it descent. Piece of Cake! That should not be hard to do. But, sometimes, we as humans, who feel we have to push our limits, will cross the line from acceptable into the unacceptable by USM standards rules. And, when this happens, we have to pay the consequences. Period. Plain and simple.

So if you don't think that the posts are interesting enough, then get your fingers busy and WRITE an interesting piece or two. If you don't think you have many friends here, then get yourself known. Post and reply more. Send pms to say, "Hi I am <fill in the blank> and I just wanted to tell you that I think that your profile or post or reply about whatever was great! Keep up the good work!"

If something is broke, then fix it. If not then leave it alone. YOU, as a member of USM, the person with THE necessary toolbox, needs to decide WHAT, if anything, to do.

Hey,Hey,Paula

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Date: 10/16/2004 2:15:00 PM  From Authorid: 16916    I agree, as I said in another reply, dont complain unless you have some solutions. How can you expect other people to come up with solutions unless you cant think of any yourself. Thanks great post!  
Date: 10/16/2004 2:15:00 PM  From Authorid: 62267    1st of all what is so interesting about reading your own story and as a member you can NEVER make everyone happy...even as an ADMIN...you can never satisfy everyone.  
Date: 10/16/2004 2:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 61966    HeyHeyPaula, you have put what I have been thinking into words! I've read 4 posts about the old USM already and I'm kind of suprised. I agree with you, if people think USM has changed then do something about it to make it better and stop complaining! :) I think USM is great no matter what.  
Date: 10/16/2004 2:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 50434    I second that. I have been here for a lil over two years and I see nothing wrong with USM, so maybe its not like it was in the past <I wouldnt know> but dewling in the past is not kewl look forward to the future and make everyone moment count.  
Date: 10/16/2004 2:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 62267    Not that I don't like to write because I really do but one person can't make it all better.  
Date: 10/16/2004 2:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 53836    YOU TELL'EM PAULA!!!! Wahoooooooo!! I think I just came up with a new nickname for you...hope you don't mind, Sarg :D Besides, if they read my posts, they won't be bored, LOL :O Did I just say that :O I sure did. Do some research...challenge yourselves...write about something new, noteworthy...interesting...or go to the chat :)  
Date: 10/16/2004 2:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 53836    Go Sarg!!!! You Rock! *snickers*  
Date: 10/16/2004 2:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 62267    Change yourselves? Why? If you have to change yourself to be right or whatever then...noone will ever see the real you.  
Date: 10/16/2004 2:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 62265    LOLOL! I was just about to post the same thing! I hate it when people whine!  
Date: 10/16/2004 2:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 62267    And Sarg is not a good thing. That's what we use to call my old boss at work and she got fired for being too pushy.  
Date: 10/16/2004 2:50:00 PM  From Authorid: 3263    See Paula? Even Spacey agrees, YOU ROCK!! LOL!!!! :D  
Date: 10/16/2004 2:51:00 PM  From Authorid: 62267    OK. The reason I am commenting so much to this post is because I posted about how USm has changed...like...10 mins ago or more. I don't see it as whining. People just get all hateful if you state your opinion. I was just telling how I felt it had changed. It is not whining...lol...but I know as this post says...I'm not being singled out :-)  
Date: 10/16/2004 3:10:00 PM  From Authorid: 16373    Same here Freaq...im not whining either but USM did use to be different. Alot different then what it is now. I knew alot of ppl from back then that got banned or just left. I miss them! As well as some of u do. TinaPooh  
Date: 10/16/2004 3:13:00 PM  From Authorid: 53836    you don't have to change, just act accordingly...you know...at school you'd be suspended for wearing a bikini top or carrying a knofe...at USM, you have to directly and continuously offend a member or group of members. You can share opinions, but not bash those who think differently. You can pick your nose, just not your friend's nose...get it...as for Sarg...we have an Aunt we lovingly refer to as Sarge because she'll set you straight telling you like it is...and keeps things in order even though no one really ever appointed her to do so. A very respectful nickname in my opinion...but see, it's not the same opinion you have, Freaq and that doesn't faze me one bit. That's the secret honor code at USM...RESPECT  
Date: 10/16/2004 3:14:00 PM  From Authorid: 62753    HEY HEY PAULA .... I agree with you 110% and I hope this is considered sucking up or kissing butt ---- People moan and complain but they come back everyday - there must be something good about USM....... you can never make people happy!  
Date: 10/16/2004 3:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 53836    another factor is that some of the people who used to make USM great are no longer here but in spirit...and still others are sick or don't have access to their pc...it takes USMers to make USM what it is. You are instrumental in making USM great or a complaint website.
  
Date: 10/16/2004 3:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 61013    I agree Hey Hey Paula I mean yeah I miss the old usmers but new, old same differnces. *hugs* Write on. Love Always,Keri  
Date: 10/16/2004 3:27:00 PM  From Authorid: 61013    the only thing that has really changed is the layout, and the people thats it. Love Always,Keri  
Date: 10/16/2004 4:37:00 PM  From Authorid: 8184    I miss the old USMers, love the new ones I've met, and yes, things have changed but USM is still great.  
Date: 10/16/2004 4:42:00 PM  From Authorid: 1799    finally. thank you.  
Date: 10/16/2004 5:37:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53961    You all are so funny :-) If there is one thing I have learned in the 53 years I have been on the earth, in the three mariages/divorces I went through, with the three children I raised as mostly a single parent, with my expectancies of life, is that a person has got to be FLEXIBLE TO CHANGE. If you won't bend when the wind blows, you may break a branch or two.  
Date: 10/17/2004 3:22:00 AM  From Authorid: 42945    great post Paula!!! hugs hun  
Date: 10/17/2004 5:49:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53961    Thanks Zema my friend. {{{HUGS}}} back at 'cha!  
Date: 10/17/2004 7:18:00 AM  From Authorid: 609    *singing* Paula is sooo smart!! I love this post of her's!! She made my day rock!!*happy dance solo* .....ok ok no one ever said I could write a good song lol. This is a great post Paula!! Different isn't always bad, sometimes people are just too stuck in wanting to have things their way. I know I get flack for saying this but I stick to it, "if you don't like it there's the door" I didn't like things in my life so I left. And yes one person does make a differance, if every person stived to be better then instead of one you have 30 or 50 and that is what makes the differance. Great post Paula!!  
Date: 10/17/2004 2:50:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53961    Thank you Phe and thank you all! You Rock! ;) {{{HUGS}}}  
Date: 10/17/2004 3:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 4144    what's the deal? i didn't realize anything had been changed lately. i love USM and i don't care what changes are made. i have a free account and i think i am just blessed to be here!! no i am not sucking up! o.k. one thing i have noticed....the jack-o-lantern and moon at the top. they kinda drive me nuts but they will be gone soon. right?! seriously, i don't think it's broke and it don't need fixin'!!  

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