Date: 9/29/2004 3:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 25183
Yep, been there, done that. Nothing seems to help but time for me. I so know what you mean about a song or phrase causing memories. I just always try to remember if this person had been meant for me it would have worked, so there must be someone else out there!  |
Date: 9/29/2004 3:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 35160
i sure have hun. nearly tore my world apart. but then i was sick with cancer and he had just cheated on me a week before x-mas. so yeah it was a bad time for me. the only thing that helped me was time. it took me over a year to get over the hurt, the ANGER, THE BETRAYEL. its the hardest thing i have ever had to deal with relationship wise. writing how i felt really helped me alot. i would write letters to him and tell him how i felt and what i thought of him. i never sent them , but it helped so much just to write them. writing poetry also helped me oh so much. when that happened to me i thought it was the end of the world. but now that im away from him i realize how much better off i am. how much happier i am . my life is a million times better now without him in my life. he doesnt realize it. but what he did for me was the best gift he ever gave me. he set me free, and gave me some very valuable life lessons . now i am happier than i have ever been in my life. :D:D  |
Date: 9/29/2004 3:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 60685
I tried to keep busy with school, my hobbies and friends, unfortunately there's not an exact formula to get over someone, it just takes time.  |
Date: 9/29/2004 3:30:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 62424
You guys are really strong....  |
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Date: 9/29/2004 3:31:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 62424
eh...Im off to write a poem now |
Date: 9/29/2004 4:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 22308
yeah i have been through one before. i was with the guy for 5 1/2 months and didn't know he was cheating on me the entire time. it took a while to get over it. 2 to 3 months exactly. How i did it was, i made myself think stronger as a person and thought that i was better than the other girl in many ways and i really am. i hate to be conceited but that's the way i made myself better. i'm better than her and i always will be and its someone else's gain and his loss and he'll regret it in the end and if he comes back and apoligizes after denying everything, i'll just tell him he can screw off and dream on cause he isn't having me now and never will after he made the mistake in cheating. you've got to put yourself in high hopes for youself and it will make you feel so much better.  |
Date: 9/29/2004 5:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 62881
I do the same thing, Shay. I write letters and never send them. It helps me put everything in perspective. Sometimes you find out that these things are for the best. Sure it hurts, but to quote Olympia Dukakis in Steel Magnolias, "That which doesn't kill us makes us stronger". True, true!! Green Eyed Froggy  |
