Date: 5/14/2003 5:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
less than a week of dating is way soon. it doesn't matter how long you have known him. and you only do what you feel comfortable doing. don't ever be pressured by thinking your being hypocritical, or allowing him to pressure you. if he truely cares, he will respect your wishes. but, in my oppionion, a week is very very soon into the relationship. if you are comfortable kissing him, than it's OK, if you aren't...then that's OK too. only if you are comfortable with it.  |
Date: 5/14/2003 5:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 60052
I say, you should do whatever feels right to YOU! If you don't feel right doing that right away, then don't, if you do, then go for it. This is one of those "listen to your heart" situations. -ToDieFor-  |
Date: 5/14/2003 6:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 13897
LoL no  |
Date: 5/14/2003 6:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 39949
Maybe you should ask her....but kissing leads to "other things" and "other things" are noot always good....god bless  |
Date: 5/14/2003 6:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 6915
Yes, I think its ok  |
Date: 5/14/2003 6:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 53013
I think you have to do what is right for you. If you are comfortable with it than go ahead, if not you should wait.  |
Date: 5/14/2003 6:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 29532
Well, My hubby and I met online, and talked for a good 3 whole months before I moved down to Phoenix to meet him n stuff. Well, that very day I got there, we made our relationship permanent. (tee hee) We got married about 8 months after that, and have been married for almost 2 years now, just under a month shy. ANYWHO, I do not think that you can be considered a hypocrrite at all. I think you should do what you think is right and natural, and what feels good in your life, mind, body, heart and soul.  |
Date: 5/14/2003 8:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 22080
if its not sex wheres the hypocrisy?  |
Date: 5/14/2003 9:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 37900
Be aware of the principle of diminishing returns: over time, more pleasure is required for the same thrill. Regarding dating, this means that couples must move to increasingly physical expressions of affection for the same "rush." The quicker that couples begin kissing and "being intimate," the greater the chance they will engage in sex. Sexual desire is an extremely powerful part of who we are; too many people under-estimate its allure and addictive nature. Please be careful.  |
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Date: 5/14/2003 9:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 22080
alfrowl thats because its our instinct of pro-creation |
Date: 5/14/2003 10:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
well you know this person for a long time... just because you know them you shouldn't rush into thing... you have your whole life ahead of you... and if you rush... what happens after you rush and get to a point where you can't or won't go any further you want to savor each moment like a fine peice or chocolate.. you don't bite bite swallow.. you put it on your tongue and let it melt and enjoy every sensation it causes  |
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Date: 5/14/2003 11:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 37900
Thanks for your response, Jestr. If it is because of our instinct for procreation, I believe we should not "fan the flames" until we are mentally and emotionally mature enough to accept the consequences. |
Date: 5/15/2003 5:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 62003
Just follow your heart, if you don't the only person your betraying is yourself.  |
Date: 5/15/2003 6:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 60945
very true Lily Fairy  |
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Date: 5/15/2003 11:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 22080
you're right but we cant control our instincts |
Date: 5/15/2003 5:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 39763
Well no I don't think so, but I think it's much better to wait longer....  |
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Date: 5/15/2003 8:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 37900
Thanks for your response, Jestr. I think our instincts can be controlled to a large extent. IMO, our will is more powerful than our instincts. |
Date: 5/16/2003 5:53:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52140
thanks guys. I broke up with the guy 6 months ago.  |
Date: 5/16/2003 8:16:00 AM
From Authorid: 17204
go for it  |
Date: 5/16/2003 3:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 57723
yes that's ok  |
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Date: 5/17/2003 12:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 22080
i think thats a crock, our instincts control us wether you realise it or not |
Date: 5/17/2003 10:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 16069
Its up to you and what you feel your ready for.  |
Date: 5/21/2003 4:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 42464
Well depends on what you think. I kiss my boyfriend the 4th day we were going out. But that is just me.  |
