I have this guy friend named Lee. We met over a year ago. Our relationship hasnt just been friendship, its been intimate from the time we met. About 3 months ago I've started to feel more strongly for him. He has always sent me mixed signals and just a few months back he said he has feelings for me too. We've gone from not talking to talking to not talking because of feelings that either I have or he has. The thing is I love this guy as a friend not a bf...but I've thought about us getting into a relationship. He says he would hurt me if we did get into a relationship cause thats how he is. I'm glad he was honest about that. So I'm trying to just go on with the frienship/intimacy thing that we have cause I really enjoy it. Now he has met a girl who I guess he wants to get to know. I'm hurt cause I know I'm gonna lose him...I find that I cant just be his friend anymore. I'm tired of the mixed signals as well. Sometimes I think he wants me too but then he just like pulls away. I'm thinking I should just let it all go before it gets harder. I really need to know if I'll be doing the right thing to let him go his own way. Plus I'm in love with my ex bf still but just so much has happened that Lee has been there for me...could that be why I'm feeling this way. Is he my comfort and I'm scared to lose that? Please help me decide what I should do????? I'm so confused and hurt right now.
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