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i messed up real bad. please help!!

  Author:  61673  Category:(General Advice) Created:(5/12/2003 1:11:00 PM)
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Ok, I did something really stupid. On Thursday and Friday I brought alcohol to school formy friends. Well somehow we got caught and now we're all suspended for 10 days. I know it was wrong and very stupid and I will never do it again but I have been telling the principle the truth the whole time. 3 other people are involved and they have been telling her different stories so of course she doesn't know who to believe. Well, my "friends" called me and asked me to lie so that they wouldn't be in so much trouble. (one of them is supposed to go to hawaii and she wont get to if i dont lie or something which i think she'd still get in trouble if that made any sense) well, my principle called me b/c i told her that my friend had emailed me telling me that the other girl said to say soemthing else (tell the principle a different story) so i had to read the email to her and i didnt say what my "friends" told me to say. I hate to tell on people especially my friends but i dont see why they cant just tell the truth. I'm so upset that i feel like im gonna throw up. Also, they all think that I'm the one who went to the office and told. Why would i go and get my friends and myself in trouble?! This is my bff who thinks i did that. I'm so mad. I even wish that I could just die so I didn't have to deal with this. I know it was dumb. I've never even gotten a detention or anything. Anyway, what should I do? Please help!! thanks! *hugs*

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Date: 5/12/2003 1:13:00 PM  From Authorid: 46527    Always tell the truth, it may lose you a few 'friends' but are they really people that you need to have as friends?  
Date: 5/12/2003 1:18:00 PM  From Authorid: 36766    if it was me, I would just tell the principal the truth  
Date: 5/12/2003 1:18:00 PM  From Authorid: 16845    *Nods* yep what lsr said.....tell the principal the truth then take what punishment is handed down to you gracefully and learn from it   
Date: 5/12/2003 1:18:00 PM  From Authorid: 23075    If I were in your shoes...I'd be telling the truth....  
Date: 5/12/2003 1:23:00 PM  From Authorid: 57404    I agree with what the others said. I know right now it's really bad.. but tell the truth. You don't need friends like that. If you have never had detention etc before.. and now you are getting into trouble then you don't need them as friends. Why should you lie for them? They should have never asked you to do such a thing in the first place, and you should have never agreed to do it. Why did you agree to bring them what they wanted? I'm just curious. I did some dumb things in school too.. and I tell ya.. I learned from them really fast. LOL Just tell the truth, who cares what your other friends think. You shouldn't take all the heat in this. I hope it all works out... and it will. God Bless  
Date: 5/12/2003 1:35:00 PM  From Authorid: 50193    I agree with what the other said. Just tell the true, and "face the music." You live, you learn; right?  
Date: 5/12/2003 1:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 27583    IF YOU DO THE RIGHT THING YOU WILL NEVER HAVE TO LOOK BACK ANDWONDER WHAT IF . MABYE IF YOU TELL THE TRUTH NOW YOU CAN SAVE THEM FROM ALWAYS THINKING THAT THERE WILL ALWAYS BE AN EASY WAY OUT AND TRYING SOMTHING MORE DANGEROUS. ITS HARD NOW BUT THINK OF THE CONSEQUENCES THAT COULD COME UP LATER IF YOU LIE NOW. YOUR FRIEND ,
wooden nickel
  
Date: 5/12/2003 1:42:00 PM  From Authorid: 53055    Well, bringing that stuff to school was dumb, but you already know that. You shouldn't do anything. Just tell the principle what happened, maybe you won't get into so much trouble if you do. Guess this is how you gotta repay your debt. Hope you don't do something like that again.  
Date: 5/12/2003 1:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 28848    Wow losing a trip to hawaii would suck. But I agree with you about telling the truth. The truth is easier to keep up with. And I understand how you feel, but this will pass and one day you will look back and think how petty it all seemed. Don't stress yourself out too much. And DONT do anything like this EVER again. If you need a friend to talk to, you can msg. Good luck with everything!  
Date: 5/12/2003 1:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 23075    something else I wanted to add....tell the truth...because if you don't you will find yourself using one lie after another to cover up the previous lie..  
Date: 5/12/2003 2:02:00 PM  From Authorid: 60685    It seems like you've learned your lesson and got some pretty good advice here. As for your friends, explain to them what you just explained in your post, that it would be really darn stupid if you were the one to tell seeing how you got in trouble too. Also, if they ever ask you to bring alcohol remind them this lil' situation and just say no.  
Date: 5/12/2003 2:04:00 PM  From Authorid: 60685    Woops, remind them of this lil' situation.. Hehe, I'm always correcting myself, can't help it.  
Date: 5/12/2003 2:39:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 61673    Hey! Thanks for your help everybody! I brought it because my friend asked me to and i was stupid enough to do it for them. I can't give you a good reason for why i did it...i wasnt thinking and I definitely will NEVER do it again. My mom called the school today and she was talking to my guidance councelor and she said that they all believe me and not my other "friends". Since this is the first time ive ever gotten in trouble and they have had so many detentions before, i think thats part of the reason why they beleive me. But Im sick of my friends calling me b/c i dont want to listen to them yell at me b/c im telling the truth or to tell me to lie. They also told the principle that i drank the alcohol which was not true! These were my closest friends and i dont see how they could do that to me. but all of them are saying that they didnt say it so i dont know what going on. If i cant trust my best friends, then who can i? ok well thanks for all your help! *hugs*  
Date: 5/12/2003 3:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 55841    You are doing the right thing in telling the truth. If your "friends" are telling you to lie, then they aren't very good friends. They bear responsibility in this situation, too, and they need to accept their share, rather than blame it all on you. Their inability to do so illustrates how very immature they are.

We all make mistakes, but it seems you are the only one with the maturity to stand up and take the responsibility for them. I'm very proud of you for doing that, and I'm glad you learned the lesson about the alcohol. The best lessons in life are usually the ones that are the hardest on us, but they are also the ones that we remember best so that we don't repeat them. Keep doing what you know is right, and you'll be ok! On the other hand, I'm a little more worried about your friends. ;-) -Lotus Blossom
  
Date: 5/12/2003 4:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 8278    definitly tell the truth! why should you take all the blame? a real friend wouldn't expect you to do that. yes, it was completely wrong to bring it to school. but i think you learned from your mistake. alot of growing up comes from learning from what you do wrong. your friends will never learn that if they don't face up to their part of this. just tell the truth and take whatever punishment you are given.  
Date: 5/12/2003 5:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    they want to save thier own butts... you honestly did a stupid thing bringing it to school(what you were doing with it anyways???) but i see you now realise that(what is a good thing!!) just stick to your guns and tell the truth if they choose to lie that is thier choice but why should you save thier butts? it almost sounds like they talked you into doing it and now they want to pin the blame on you  
Date: 5/12/2003 5:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    if they turn thier back on you like this they are not true friends you deserve better.. when they call don't answer...hang up, tell then you can't talk, tell then your not going to put up with thier useless banter at you... if you lose thier friendship it's ok you deserve better  
Date: 5/12/2003 6:12:00 PM  From Authorid: 59385    If your friends dont care about how much trouble your in i wouldnt lie for them no way and hey it wasnt stupid to do this we all did it when we were younger and if i was still in school i still would bring it hey what else can you do in school it was always boring to me  
Date: 5/12/2003 9:47:00 PM  From Authorid: 52155    You are right, that was stupid. Good for you for trying to take responsibility for it  
Date: 5/13/2003 3:43:00 AM  From Authorid: 59418    wow, thats quite a mess! I hope things turn out ok hon! Don't get yourself into more of a mess by lying..*hugs*  
Date: 5/13/2003 5:37:00 PM  From Authorid: 60395    TELL THE TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!! hey would i lie to you? luv ya lots *musicgirl*  
Date: 5/13/2003 11:12:00 PM  From Authorid: 53054    telling a lie will jsut make matters worse so it is good that you have chossen to tell the truth....you have to ask yourself though why you brought the alcohol to skool....you knew it was bad, was it because your friends or so called friends pressured you to! be truth ful to yourself....sorry im not being hard or anything but i think that you have learnt your lesson, and maybe you should think about hanging with a different group of friends!  

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