O.k. I have three children and a husband. My middle daughter reminds me of myself when I was her age, just about 100% worse. All three of the kids are out of control. They are only 7, 8, and 9. But man do they get mouthy. The only way I can get them to listen, is to wip them, then sometimes that don't work. My husband doesn't stand behind me, when I try to punish them.
Example: Today I was making a cake. I just got done using the electric mixer to mix it, and my middle daughter came storming in and ordering the mixing things that are on the mixer. So since she was being rude, I gave the other two them instead. So she got really mad and starting screaming at me and yelling all kinds of things. Then told me that I had to give her the bowl, when I was done. I told her no, becouse of her attitude. I was trying to show her that you don't get what you want by throwing attitude at people. So she stormed out the door and told her dad, who then sent word for me to give it to her. He didn't know what was going on, so I still told her no. After she went back out to her dad, and came back in with another message for me to give her the bowl, I explained to her that the only way she was getting it was to appoligize for being so rude. She just looked at me and said no, that if I didn't give her the bowl she was getting her dad. I stood my ground, and she went and got her dad. He came in and gave it to her without even asking why I said no in the first place. When I tried to tell him what was going on, he told me he didn't want to hear it and walked back outside.
I just get the feeling sometimes that my husband and my children just really do not love me. I know that sounds stupid, but they all make me look like the bad guy. The kids will do anything he asks, but they scream at me and hit me and kick me, when there dad isn't around. They have no respect for me. Does anyoen have any advice on how I can get my kids back in order and get my husband to understand what is going on. All he tell me when I try to talk to him about it, is he don't understand the problem, becouse they are good for him. It hurts to see my kids act like this towards me. They act worse towards me than even the babysitter.
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