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|Date: 4/16/2002 9:26:00 AM From Authorid: 14754 well since you said that you live so far away from one another..just being there for her, this is something she wants to want to do for herself, YOU cant make her stay sober..what you could also do is, go to an al-non meeting..it might help you, or give you some insite to all of this..Take Care|
|Date: 4/16/2002 9:43:00 AM From Authorid: 15394 awww Pumbaa I bet calling and being a FRIEND is all she needs from you... maybe an ear to listen to her woes... a friend! I had a best friend go through rehab three different times over ten years, and I used to get sick of hearing about sobriety etc, but it was helpful for her so I was a "friend" ... I used to send her little encouraging postcards... cute pictures and lighthearted sayings so she could get a break from the heavieness of rehab maybe you could try that too|
|Date: 4/16/2002 9:44:00 AM From Authorid: 15394 oh and do her a huge favor and buy her a journal!!! Is great for rehab, and great for self esteem and great for a record of how far she comes in her sobriety...|
|Date: 4/16/2002 10:05:00 AM From Authorid: 14754 Those are some wonderful suggestions Jungabel..|
|Date: 4/16/2002 10:18:00 AM ( From Author ) From Authorid: 47539 I love the journal idea! Thanks Jungabel!|
|Date: 4/16/2002 10:22:00 AM From Authorid: 7654 Pick your friend up one day and ya'll go out to lunch. Take her away from her husband for that day . Go for a walk in the park and make up for lost time and let her know that if she ever needs you you will be there..|
|Date: 4/16/2002 12:15:00 PM From Authorid: 40979 Well for one praying would help a lot. just tell her how happy you are for her and let her know your always there for her.|
|Date: 4/17/2002 7:52:00 PM From Authorid: 47983 Pick your friend up to go some where, where you guys can be alone to talk about your lives and stuff. Eat out, dance, whatever! ...~*Jeset*~|
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